早就在各大主流**上對這位中國式的美國媽媽有所耳聞，但是那時我對她并沒有什么興趣，心想一定是那種最古老的中國式教育方法，只因它出現(xiàn)在了美國社會所以才變得如此轟動，然而這次看完有關(guān)虎媽的采訪**和《虎媽戰(zhàn)歌》的節(jié)選卻讓我對她有了更加深刻的認識。

首先，我認為書中的十條規(guī)則非常不可思議。作者對孩子的要求太嚴格，孩子的童年可以說沒有自由。孩子們?nèi)狈ψ约旱耐嫠r間。這樣的孩子可能會成功，但她們可能與同學(xué)或朋友相處不好。她們可能患有自閉癥。

這位美國媽媽給我最大啟發(fā)的其實并不在于她的教育方法本身，可以說，我并不十分贊同她近乎極端、非人性的教育方法，其嚴厲和苛刻的程度甚至連中國媽媽都望塵莫及。最讓我受益的是蔡美兒在教育女兒過程中的自信、堅持、追求和勤奮。

她嚴格堅持中國式的教育方法，這是美國家庭和美國社會的一個特例，也是不合理的，事實證明了這一點。蔡美兒不僅要與女兒抗爭，應(yīng)對女兒的反抗，更要有勇氣面對丈夫、婆婆、父母，甚至朋友、同事乃至全社會的挑戰(zhàn)和反對。在這樣的環(huán)境下，女人之所以能堅持這么久，最根本的原因就是她的自信。

她對自己的教育方法很有信心。她堅信自己是對的。她堅信她的嚴厲和嚴厲是她女兒未來的責任。她也相信自己對女兒的選擇對女兒來說是合適合明智的。有了這種自信，她需要有更多的勇氣堅持下去。我最佩服的是她的堅持。在堅持的過程中，她與丈夫無數(shù)次爭吵，與婆婆無數(shù)次發(fā)生不快，甚至讓女兒當眾羞辱氣得在俄羅斯紅場上邊哭邊跑不顧旁人投來各種異樣的目光。

很多次我都在想，如果我是蔡美兒，我早就放棄了。我開始在周圍人的質(zhì)疑聲中質(zhì)疑自己的教育方法，逐漸懷疑自己，失去信心，最后選擇了放棄。

但事實上，我既不同意蔡美兒的做法，也不同意美國教育孩子的方式。這些方式是兩個極端，無論怎樣，都會對兒童的全面發(fā)展產(chǎn)生一定的影響。在我看來，教育孩子，不僅要嚴格，還要給孩子一些私人空間，讓他們在父母的監(jiān)督下努力學(xué)習，同時也要有自己的想法，讓孩子更加優(yōu)秀和創(chuàng)新。

中國的教育方式一值都是以嚴格出名的，那是因為中國的父母對孩子的期望非常的高，都希望自己的孩子的成績比別人的孩子優(yōu)秀，希望自己的孩子可以考上名牌的大學(xué)，然后能夠擁有一份好的工作。父母的想法完全是為了孩子的未來。父母不要求給孩子報酬。但是。

隨著社會的發(fā)展，許多家長和學(xué)校逐漸重視孩子的創(chuàng)新意識，培養(yǎng)孩子的自主能力，重視孩子的個性發(fā)展，也更加尊重孩子的興趣愛好。

《虎媽戰(zhàn)歌》告訴了我：虎媽的教育方式可能有效，但是這并不適合每個人，每個孩子的個性有不同，父母們應(yīng)該根據(jù)自己孩子的實際情況因材施教，只有這樣培育出來的孩子的整體素質(zhì)才能是最棒的。

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early in the mainstream media i have heard of the chinese american mother, but i wasn't interested in her, i thought, it must be the oldest chinese education method, because it appears in the american society and be***e such a sensation, but after watching the tiger mother’s video interview and the excerpt of《battle hymn of the tiger mother》 let me have a more profound understanding of her

first , in my opinion the rules felt really incredible for children's requirements, the authors were too strict, child childhood can say is not free. children without their own play time, this child though probably will be very successful, but they may not in good and clas**ates or friends, they may suffer from auti**.

the american mother gives me the biggest inspiration is not in her education method itself,in fact,i don't quite agree with the method of education, she is extremely inhuman, its harsh and demanding extent even than chinese mother. make me the biggest benefit is cai meier shown in education process, adhere to the daughter, and diligent pursuit of self-confidence.

she strictly adhering to the chinese way, this one in the united states and the united states of america society is the special case of family, is won't listen to reason, facts have proved this point. the tiger mother is not only a moment with her daughter to fight with from the daughters of resistance, she would also like to have more courage to face from her husband, mother-in-law, parents, friends, colleagues and even the whole society questioned and opposed. in that environment, a woman can be so eager to go, the most fundamental is from her confidence.

she is quite confident about his approach to education, she believes that she is right now, convinced that their rigour is responsible for her daughter's future, she believe they do for her daughter's choice is suitable, sensible for daughter. with this confidence, she would have more courage to insist, i admire most is hers stick. in the process, she and her husband quarrel with countless times, countless unpleasant, even let her daughter to humiliate the gas in the russian red square cried run regardless of other people to vote to all kinds of strange gaze.

many times i imagine, if i was chua, i would have given up, began to doubt their own education method in the surrounding people questioned in the sound, gradually doubt yourself, lose confidence, and ultimately choose to give up.

but actually i don't agree with either amy chua practice also disagree with american education child's way, these ways are the two extremes, no matter what, always will to children's overall development and produce certain effect. in my opinion, education child should not only strictly also give him some private space, so that the child under the supervision of the parents can be very hard to learn, also have their own thoughts, so that the child can more excellent, innovative ability.

china's education means a value are strictly famous, it is because of china's parents ambitions for their children is very high, all hope their children grades are better than someone else's child excellent, hope that their children can be admitted to the university, then can find a good job. parents' the idea is entirely for their children's future, parents don't think request oneself can get children's reward. but.

with the development of society, many parents and schools are gradually pay attention to children's innovation consciousness, develop the child's independent ability, pay attention to children's personality development, also will be more respect your child's interests.

tiger mother tell us the way that she do is effective , but this may have effective are not suitable for everyone, every child's personality has different, parents should according to the actual situation of their children in accordance with their aptitude, only such nurtured the overall quality of the children to is the best.

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《虎媽戰(zhàn)歌》的英文讀后感范文

I have recently read Battle Hymn of Tiger Mother published by The Penguin Press in 2011. This autobiography was written by the Chinese American woman Amy Chua, a tenured professor in Yale Law School. She causes a sensation because her strict but unique parenting which brings excellent performance of her two daughters.

This autobiography tells the course of Amy Chua how she raised the two daughters in Chinese parenting way. It is divided into three parts. At the first part, it gives some introductions of the two daughters, the family. And in the second and third parts, the writer tells more details in the process of raising her two different daughters and the difficulties she was confronted in the process, and most importantly the success the daughters achieved in music which brought Amy Chua pride as well as the whole family.

To some extent, I don’t like Amy’s parenting in some aspects. In my opinion, she deprived the nature of children and pushed too much pressure on their children, especially on Lulu who was under the shadow of her excellent elder daughter—Sophia. While I was reading the third part in the rebellion part, I couldn’t control my own emotion, I felt what Lulu felt and even hated against her selfish and autocratic mother. I couldn’t understand why Amy didn’t let Lulu get up from sit, for water, not even to go to the bathroom when Lulu just wanted a rest during the long hours’ practice of violin. She made Lulu practice violin all day during the family’s vacation abroad. She spoiled the vacation by letting the other family members waiting the practice. She was unreasonable.

But next what I do is to admire her.

There is an old Chinese saying “property can never last for three generations”。 But Amy Chua did change it! Her parents came to U.S and suffered a tough life at the very beginning. They taught Amy math and piano in an extreme strict way when she was a kid. Under the influence of her parents, now Amy is frugal and pretty strict with her daughters and herself. They are the valuable points of her. Although she is so extreme on her parenting, she has the advisable ideas that the parents and the parents to be to learn.

Firstly, as parents, they couldn’t ignore their children and put all focus on their job. There is no excuse for not concerning their children. Except supervising her daughters, Amy Chua has to give lessons in university, write books and handle the family chores. She is so busy, but she doesn’t ignore the daughters.

Secondly, parents should be strict with their children especially when they are kids because kids lack of self-control. They should not indulge their children in internet or sleepovers.

Thirdly, parents should master some skills in parenting. As a matter of fact, there are so many Chinese parents who are strict with their children with no avail of success. Success can’t be totally copied, because some parents ignore the skills in parenting. When their children don’t follow their will or perform well enough to satisfy them, they will lose their temper and even beat their children, yes, of course, Amy Chua will be mad but she won’t beat her daughters, in this condition, she will be sober and wait until her daughters perform well enough. She learnt some music knowledge in her children’s class and supervised them patiently. She knew where to correct the mistakes and gave the children extraordinary success.

Tiger mother aroused a big heat in parenting and threw such an important issue for us to think about. Battle Hymn of Tiger Mother gives us really some enlightenment. Anyway, that’s a really unique experience in reading this book.

? 孤貓戰(zhàn)歌讀后感 ?